BUSY WITH LIFE

I have not updated this year because I been busy lately. I have went through a bad break up. Lost my van because of it. Back in May 29 my house got flooded out. So, My kids and I was between house's this past summer.  I have lost so much this year but I kept my head up and look forward to my future with my children. Things started looking up when I got a new van and found a place to live at back in Aug 2. During that time I have found my true love on facebook and started online relationship on July 23. We have met up within a month and still going strong. Now, My goal is move out of town next year to start a new life with my kids and my new love. That's how my life is going right now. Have a bless day.

Start New Chapter

I am happy to start a new chapter in my life by throwing the trash out for good. My kids and I are better off alone for a while. We are alot happier with out drama around us all the time. For those who really knows me, knows I always keep it to myself. Because there are so much drama. For now, I am better myself, and getting all the help I can get. I am really cleaning up the house in order to keep the kids. I am not a bad mother. I will do anything for them but most of the time I don't have money or have my van. I was just getting tried of living the life the past 2 years. Yes, We both did pushed each other to the limit, but what couples dose not. I am not sad at all. I am really happy now. "I DID CAME OUT STRONG". That's what count.

Now for the guys. Dose not hurt to see some guys here and there. Dose not mean I am a whore. I don't sleep with them. My parents raised me better then that. And I also know better then bring guys around my kids. I usually meet them some where else not at my house.

Update on the Arends

"Update" Johann Henrich Arend, and Anna Martha Bax came to the states in the early 1870's with their 6 children. So, They set foot here 147 years ago. They are listed on both New York, and Hamburg with the name spell Arendt. They took 2 boat ride's in order to get to USA. First they traveled to Leith, Scotland from Hamburg, and Then went to New York from Glasgow, Scotland. 

Anna Martha surname was either Box or Bax. Found out her surname really spell Bax not Box. Someone got her parents listed as Johannes Bax, and Anna Catharina Schlag. So, I went up to the 1500's on her side. To Hans Albert, and Thrina (Katharina) Lowmann  from Besse, Edermünde, Hesse, Germany, and also couple of others.

I have notice that John and Anna ancestor's carry the same surname "Hellmundt"